Today is Neal’s birthday. Anna has been practicing her “Happy Birthday” song in preparation for the day. By request, we are posting a video of Anna singing “Happy Birthday.” It isn’t the best she’s ever sung this song, but we think you’ll find it cute nonetheless.
Happy Birthday Dad!
Anna Sings Happy Birthday (~1MB). You’ll need the latest version of QuickTime Player to view this movie. Here’s the link: http://www.apple.com/quicktime/
Enjoy!
2 comments April 6th, 2008
We’re taking bets on how long it will take the monkey in our family to figure out that she can push the chair to the kitchen counter, climb onto said chair, and access all the forbidden wonders located on the counter top. This evening we walked into the kitchen to find Anna standing on one of the kitchen chairs. When she learned this new skill, I haven’t the slightest idea. She certainly was pleased with herself! So…who’s going to make the first bet?
In other news…we went to the circus today. The Greatest Show on Earth is certainly lacking. Perhaps it is just because I’m older and jaded, but it seemed smaller and amateurish (Neal agreed). I mean, they had two clowns…yes, that’s T-W-O clowns; and some troupe from Bulgaria jumping through hoops and such. No tigers (thanks Roy), only one elephant, one horse, and some dogs catching frisbees. We arrived a bit late to the arena and tried to find our seats in near complete darkness. In the meantime, Anna was totally freaking out. The darkness, the spotlights, the people…all of it caused her to cry and scream at the top of her lungs. We honestly thought that we were going to be forced to bag the entire thing. After a bit, the house lights came up and we were able to calm her down. By the end of the performance, Anna was crying because we had to leave.
On Friday Anna received her new orthotic. I hate it. She doesn’t seem to mind it though, and I guess that’s all that matters. It extends up her leg to about the largest part of her calf. It has two hinges that allow her to bend her knee and ankle, but prevent her from pointing her toe. She’s definitely heel-toeing, but she sort of looks like a pirate with a peg leg. She swings her left leg out and around. I’m hoping her PT can tell me whether this will change once she becomes used to the weight and the way it works. We’re certainly going to need to go shoe shopping again. So far we have one pair of shoes that fit over this new brace. I’ve heard that Nordstrom’s allows you to split shoe sizes for situations like this. I think she’ll need a size larger for her left foot (and perhaps larger width, too). The shoes at Nordstrom’s may cost you more, but it is probably still less than what you would have to pay if you were forced to buy two pairs each time.
Yesterday Neal sent me to a day spa for my birthday present. What a great gift! I had a massage and facial, and I got my hair cut! I realized that this may be the first (no, maybe second) haircut I’ve had since Anna was born. Anyway, the stylist asked me if I wanted to keep it long and if I pulled my hair back. I answered not necessarily to both questions, and she took it from there. I must say I was pretty freaked out (still am a little) by my new “do”. It’s much shorter than I’m used to, and it’s layered. I don’t think I’ve ever had layered hair - feathered, yes; layered, no (oh come on…I lived through the 80s). Needless to say, I think I’m going to need a little time to adjust to this new haircut. It’s supposed to be “wash and go” because I told her I don’t have the time or patience to deal with fixing my hair. This morning I had to do a lot more than wash and go. Why does your hair NEVER look the same on the second day? Arg.
Max has a new friend (or nemesis, we’re not sure which) that comes to visit him almost everyday. This very curious, orange tabby cat has been making the rounds nightly. This rocks Max’s world. They loudly mew back and forth to each other for what seems like hours (this usually happens after everyone has gone to bed). I’ve resorted to spraying the orange tabby with water (through the window screen) to make him leave so that the house is quiet again. Max then runs from window to window looking for his contact with the outside world. Poor guy.
Add comment September 16th, 2007
Today we journeyed down to Children’s Hospital to have Anna’s cast made. It was a tramatic experience for Anna (and for me! She looked at me as if to say, “Why are you letting them do this to me?”). For those of you who do not know, we are casting Anna’s right hand to encourage the use of her left. During the next three weeks we will be doing intensive therapy using her left hand. We’ll be attending therapy at Children’s three days a week and we’ll be continuing our normal therapy sessions here at home. Needless to say it will be a busy time for us.
This weekend will be an adjustment period during which Anna will hopefully become more accustomed to having the cast on. Seeing her with her dominant hand out of the picture today made me realize how far we’ve come, and yet how far we have to go in regards to the functioning of her left hand. It was something of a reality check for me. I think it caught me unawares. Her evaluation at Children’s added to that reality check; the doctors/therapists spelled out what Anna’s issues were in a rather clinical way. It all sounded so negative. As to be expected, they were evaluating her from this point in time, without regard to how far Anna has come in the last 4 months since we started her therapy. For some reason it was hard to hear.
As if getting your dominant hand casted were not enough, we had Anna’s 12-month check-up today (and no, I didn’t plan on having both of these events happen on the same day!). Everything about her development looks good. She still doesn’t weigh enough for us to be able to turn her car seat around (darn). In fact, the doctor was still a bit concerned about her weight gain. She’s fallen into the 25th percentile in her weight - 19 lbs. 12 oz. She holding strong to the 90-95th percentile for height, however (31 1/2 inches). Some of her meager weight gain may be due to the fact that she’s had a stomach/intestinal bug this last week. I won’t go into detail…suffice it to say, carseats are not meant to handle vomit. Anna also has developed another ear infection in her right ear. So we’re back on the antibiotics. Silver lining: no shots today because she has an infection.
I posted a ton of pictures from Anna’s birthday party and Granny and Papa Rex’s visit to Colorado. I’ll work on posting some short movies of Anna eating her cake and such.
1 comment March 16th, 2007
One year ago today you were born, little one, and what an amazing year it’s been.
You’ve learned so much in these past few months: How to breathe, how to cry, how to nurse, how to burp, how to roll over, how to sit without falling over, how to sleep through the night, how to laugh, how to babble, how to giggle when tickled, how to drink from a bottle, how to say mama and dada, how to make the signs for food, milk, and the cat, how to sit up all by your self, how to crawl, how to stand up, how to make friends, how to play with toys, how to read books, how to grow teeth and just a very little bit of hair, how to snuggle, how to eat grown-up food, how to find your way across the room, how to cruise around the coffee table, how to climb stairs, how to clap, how to pick up things with your left hand, how to wave like a princess, how to blow big smacking kisses across the room, how to give hugs, how to give kisses, and how to light up an entire room with your beautiful smile.
And we’ve learned so much too: How to give birth, how to change diapers, how to give baths, how to dress tiny babies in tiny clothes, how to install car seats and baby gates, how to nurse, how to burp a baby, how to make a little girl smile, how to function on very little sleep, how to make a bottle, how to make breakfast, how to teach a baby to stretch, clap, sit up, eat, crawl, stand, sleep through the night, and climb stairs, how to cope with the fears all parents face, how to sing, how to distract, how to be more organized and not worry about when we aren’t, how to be more patient, how to love each other when we’re under fire, and how to love you, unconditionally, always and forever, for you are the most wonderful and rewarding thing in our lives.
Thank you, Anna, for joining our family and for and teaching us so much. Happy birthday, dearest girl. We love you.
1 comment March 15th, 2007
Anna’s Granny and Papa from Kansas are visiting us! Anna’s 1st Birthday party is this weekend and they made the drive out to Colorado to help us celebrate. I can’t believe that the little Miss will be one year old! We’ve said it before, but Neal and I agree that it has been both the longest and shortest year ever. So much has happened since this time last year, yet it seems like only yesterday that she entered this world.
Next Wednesday Anna and I will be making a trip down to Children’s Hospital in Denver to see if she is a good candidate for a special type of therapy. We’re meeting with a rehab doctor and a hand specialist. The therapy regimen is called Constraint-Induced Therapy and involves the casting of her unaffected arm for a period of 2-3 weeks. While her right arm is casted, we’ll be doing intensive therapy with her left hand/arm. This type of therapy has shown great promise in children with some form of hemiparesis, and there are several studies that document this success in the literature. We’ve tried some home-grown constraint therapy using a couple of very thick socks or a ski mitten placed over her right hand/arm; it is amazing what she can and will do with her left hand if her right hand is out of the picture. We’re hoping that this therapy will help Anna realize that her left hand can do things, too!
If Anna is deemed to be a good candidate for this therapy, we’ll probably start on the 19th. This is potentially going to be a tough time for Anna (and for us, too). I’m hoping she tolerates the cast and is still able to do many of the things she does now. I’ll keep you posted on our progress!
1 comment March 6th, 2007
It is absolutely amazing how quickly time flies these days. We’ve been quite busy, as usual. Granny Debbie returned home to Kansas yesterday after a week-long visit. We miss her already! I hope she had a nice time visiting her grandbabies, because I know we certainly enjoyed her visit. Neal and I went out on our very first date since Anna was born. Granny Debbie watched Anna while we went out to eat. Of course, we spent about 50% of our time away talking about Anna and wondering if she was giving my Mom a hard time! It was really nice to have some time to ourselves, though.
On Sunday we celebrated Henry’s 1st birthday! Speaking of time flying, I can’t believe that it was one year ago that we rushed to the hospital to be with my Sister at Henry’s birth. It literally seems like yesterday. Henry seemed to enjoy himself at his party. He was a little confused when everyone sang to him, but enjoyed the attention as he made a total mess of himself and his cake. Happy Birthday H-man!
Last week we heard from the doctor’s at Children’s Hospital regarding Anna’s blood work. Anna does not have a clotting or bleeding disorder that caused her stroke. From what it sounds like, this was an isolated incident. This is all very good news because it means she is not necessarily at increased risk for additional strokes.
I realized I haven’t given any reports on Anna’s occupational therapy appointments. So far we’ve had two session and we’ll have another one this afternoon. Thursday is shaping up to be a busy day for us. Anna has physical therapy every other week and occupational therapy every week on Thursdays: one in the morning, one in the afternoon. Our first OT appointment didn’t go so well, as Anna was cranky and very skeptical of Kathy. Last week’s session went much much better. I made sure she’d had a nap and a snack before the session started.
Kathy was quite impressed with Anna’s progress. Anna has been relaxing her hand more these days, which is a great thing. If she’s having a good Bob-day, she fists her hand only slightly and most of the time it is open. Of course, there are those days when it seems like her hand is clenched very tightly and no amount of stretching will make it relax. I’ve tried to correlate it to something - lack of sleep, hunger, stress, not enough stretching - but I haven’t nailed down a definite cause yet. I doubt it is any one thing that causes her to tense up. Overall, Kathy told us to continue doing what we are doing: a little constraint therapy, sensory work on her left side, stretches, etc. We’ve been trying to strengthen Anna’s left arm by doing lots of weight bearing exercises: baby push-ups, leaning and propping. I can really see a difference in how long she can hold herself up using her left arm.
I believe Anna tries very hard to please us and works exceptionally hard at the tasks we give her. I don’t mean to be sappy, but it often brings tears to my eyes when I see how hard she is working to do something. I remind myself constantly that what she is going is very hard work. I know that I couldn’t do many of the things that I’m asking her to do! And yet, she furrows her brow, grunts a little, and pushes herself a farther. What a trooper.
2 comments November 16th, 2006
My cousin Dean and his wife Melinda just had a new baby! In this photo, big sister Madie welcomes Lilyanna Kay Steadman into the world! Lilyanna was born at 2:39pm this afternoon, tipping the scales at 9 lbs. 7.8 oz and 21 inches long. Mother, baby, father and big sister are all doing fine.
Welcome Ms. Lily! We love you!
Add comment October 12th, 2006
Last Friday would have been little Ben’s seventh birthday. We were happy to babysit for Ms. Madie on Friday evening while my cousin Dean and his wife Melinda took some time out to have a quiet dinner together to talk and reflect. And it was great to see folks at a birthday party in Ben’s honor on Saturday.
I just can’t believe what kind of changes a year brings. This time last year none of us had any real clue that Ben was sick, and certainly no expectation that he might not be with us today. The passing of such a wonderful little boy still doesn’t make any sense. And every time I look at the picture of Ben and his dad we have in our living room I cry.
We miss you Ben.
1 comment August 13th, 2006
We had a fun-filled trip back to Kansas this last weekend to help celebrate grandma Anna Hess’s 90th birthday. Baby Anna was named after this fantastic lady, and we think that both Annas were happy to be able to spend the time together.
This was baby Anna’s first plane flight, and despite a couple of over-zealous security agents (Anna, it seems, has already managed to get herself on some sort of terrorist watch-list) and some turbulence that gave her mom some trouble, Anna slept through the whole ordeal like a little angel. As soon as we landed in Wichita, Tara’s dad picked us up and took us back to Towanda to meet with the preacher (for Anna’s baptism the next day) and then we all met for dinner to celebrate grandma’s birthday.
In addition to the birthday celebration, Baby Anna was baptized at the United Methodist Church in Towanda, Kansas on her great grandmother’s 90th birthday on Sunday, June 4th, 2006. Honestly, this was the highlight of the whole trip. Grandma Anna was recognized during the service, and was able to stand next to her great grand-daughter during the baptism ceremony, surrounded by her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. Later in the day she gave both Anna and Henry bibles to commemorate the event.
We stayed with Tara’s mom, who stayed up until well into the early morning hours finishing Anna’s dress baking a delicious cake for grandma Anna’s birthday celebration on Sunday.
Although the trip was short, we had a wonderful time visiting with Tara’s family. And it’s great to know that Anna tolerates the hour-long plane flight to Kansas fairly well.
We took lots and lots of pictures, which are now up on the site. Go directly to our Flickr site if you’re interested in getting the most bang for your buck. Note that we’re still working to categorize many of them, but feel free to browse! We’ll also be uploading a couple of movies here soon.
To everyone in Kansas: We miss you already, and look forward to visiting again or seeing you in Colorado soon!
Add comment June 7th, 2006
My mom and dad came down to visit us yesterday to celebrate my dad’s 67th birthday! Debbie baked an outstanding Boston creme pie (or is it cake?), and we all helped make one of my dad’s favorite meals: schnitzel, potato salad, red cabbage, and asparagus. There are some good photos that I just posted to a new birthday photo album.
Add comment March 25th, 2006
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